I had a nice dream about “us”
It was nice and we were so happy.
I woke up and still lived the dream.
Then I snapped back into reality and realization hit me hard that there is no “us”
It was just a dream. A sad painful way of me running away from reality yet again.

Are you Giving or Taking? You are Giving.  You are a generous, unselfish person. This does not refer specifically to money, but also to less tangible things like your time, your help and your emotional support. You'll be best-matched with someone who's opposite to you in this respect, so look for someone who's a Taker if you want to make your life complete. You're best matched with a Taker. Are you Committed or Free? You are Free.  As a 'free' lover, you tend to prefer relationships that are open and unfettered. This can keep it fresh and exciting but there is always a danger that the bird might fly off one day and not come back. Given your preferences, you'll probably find yourself happiest with somebody who's like you in this respect - so try to settle down with someone else who's a free spirit. You're best matched with another Free person. Are you a Boss or a Slave? You are Slave.  It would seem that you derive pleasure from serving your partner and tending to their pleasure. Men often prefer to be the boss, and women to be the slave, but we can all think of notable reversals on this pattern. As a Slave, you'll almost certainly be most content in a relationship with someone who has a personality which is more dominant than yours. You're best matched with a Boss. Are you Quiet or Exciting? You are Exciting.  You're someone who likes plenty of hustle, bustle and excitement going on around you. Since this might be very trying to a partner who is not so enthused, you'll be better off with someone who's like you. You're best matched with another Exciting person.

Hmm is this true??

Maybe I was highly charged up on my emotions to defend a friend. 

Maybe I was too personal in my comments.

Maybe I should have been more objective.

So many maybe after reading more comments. But I still stick to my stand. Even if anyone likes it or not, I dont really care. These are my opinions and label me as a bitch, so be it. Sue Me! :)

See to me it’s very simple, if I am a guy who got caught in a messy situation where I have my ex-gf and current gf dislike each other. I will make sure that comments would not be allowed to be made of my ex-gf by my current gf. It’s very simple, once a upon a time, I was in a relationship with the ex. why forget all that and try to be the nice guy to the current gf? 
Anyways if i did hurt anyone with my opinions than too bad. My apologies.

On another note, while having dinner with my dearest girlie pals at Taste Garden. 
I said this, Men are all bastards esp the ones who cheat on their girlfriend and wife. But I admire the Bastard who will not deny when he gets caught and be a man about it and do the right thing that sets it straight, be it he goes for another woman or stays as long as he doesn't stray again. The rest of the men who cheat and constantly DENY. What more can I say?
>> Yeah there are still some good men around, just very hard to find.  :)

Suba was very nice; we got free cosmos and lychee martinis. heehee. 
Ladies listen up, every wed is ladies night. Free Cosmos and Strawberry-Choc Fondue. yummylicious.

 Pictures coming up later :)

 

Take the quiz: "What does your birth month reveal about you?"

September
Suave and compromising. Careful, cautious and organized. Likes to point out people's mistakes. Likes to criticize. Stubborn. Quiet but able to talk well. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal but not always honest. Does work well. Very confident. Sensitive. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Must control oneself when criticizing. Able to motivate oneself. Understanding. Fun to be around. Secretive. Loves sports, leisureand traveling. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Very choosy, especially in relationships. Systematic.


Yep, all true about myself. hmmm, wierd that the month we are born in can tell a lot about ourself.... Started checking out other birth months as well..
This belongs to that ARSE >>>>>


February
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent andclever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexy. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislike unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions

Kinda true too....

I have decided to make this private blog. I guess there are some things that i am not too comfortable in sharing with others.